Because children and teens experience so much pressure, such as dealing with rejection, relationships, school and family issues they can be susceptible to thoughts about suicide. Pre-teens and teens are still developing cognitively; they have difficulties with impulse control and forethought. As well, many teens who attempt suicide have a mental health condition. They might also be unable to see other solutions other than self-harm and suicide.
It is important that those in their lives are aware of the warning signs to help prevent suicide.
Suicide Warning Signs
- Talking or writing about suicide.
- Withdrawing from friends and family.
- Mood swings or personality changes.
- Use of alcohol or drugs.
- Feeling hopeless about a situation.
- Changing normal routines like eating & sleeping.
- Doing self-destructive things.
- Giving away belongings.
It is also important to create a space where youth feel they are heard, supported and valued. While it may be a difficult topic to approach with your children, there are ways you can help prevent self-harm and suicide.
- Don’t wait for your teen to come to you to talk about mental health and suicide.
- Pay attention to warning signs. Never shrug off threats of suicide.
- Encourage them to spend time with people they feel comfortable with.
- Monitor and talk about social media use. It can expose them to bullying, rumours, unrealistic expectations and peer pressure.
- Encourage a healthy lifestyle by eating well, exercising and getting enough sleep.
- Support their treatment plan if your pre-teen or teen is undergoing treatment for suicidal behaviour.
- Monitor medications as some can cause suicidal thoughts or behaviour changes, or if they are not properly taking their medication, it can alter their state of mind.
- Safely store firearms, alcohol and medications.
- Reach out for help.
Mental Health & Suicide Prevention Resources
- Mental Health Help Line 1-877-303-2642
- First Nations and Inuit Hope for Wellness Help Line 1-855-242-3310
- Southern Alberta YWCA (Calgary) 403-266-0707
- Alberta Health Services
- Resource Centre for Suicide Prevention
- Kickstand